5 Ways to Keep Your LDR Spicy Hot!

Phone Alerts
"Subtley leave a message like "I love you" on your partner's phone calendar. Set an alarm for when you know you won't be together and it will remind them that you are always thinking of them and loving them. My boyfriend loved this - I put "I miss you already" and set it for a couple of minutes after his train departed."

5 Ways to Keep Your LDR Spicy Hot!
by Jennifer Good

Let's face it - being in a long distance relationship sometimes just sucks. There's really no other way to put it. The lack of physical intimacy can put a real strain on long distance couples. Things that other couples may take for granted like just holding hands can feel like a dream waiting to come true. Due to this huge intimacy gap in an LDR, it's important to keep the sexiness alive and have both partners still feel wanted and desired. To help ease the pain, here are five ideas to help keep you feeling more sensually connected no matter how far away you may be from each other.

HoochyMail
Excite your love with unlimited possiblities. HoochyMail lets you create a thrilling, explicit erotic fantasy about yourself and your special someone, doing all sorts of exciting and sexy things, in all sorts of exotic and interesting locales.

Truth or Dare
Let things get a little steamy with a fun game of truth or dare. The best way to play this game is with a webcam, but with a little creativity you could use a digital camera, a phone and/or email. To get you started, here are some same truth or dares you may want to use.

Truths:
What was your most embarrassing moment?
Who was the most influential person during your childhood?
If you could teach one "truism" to the world, what would it be?
What one memento would you rescue if your home caught fire?
What first impression do you hope others receive from you?
What social scenario do you fear most?
If you live to be 100, what things would you like to be able to say you've done or learned?

Dares:
(Funny)
Make them sing a song off-key.
Have them recite the alphabet backwards.
Have them do a silly dance.
(Sexy)
Have them remove an item of clothing for you.
Make them do a sultry dance.
Have them tell you something sexy.

Lingerie Show
Gather up your sexiest outfits and show off your sexy self with a fun lingerie show for your partner. This is easiest accomplished with a webcam, but you could also create a slideshow from pictures of you in lingerie as well. Go a step further with this idea and use their favorites to create a sexy calendar.

Sexy Text Messages
Keep them thinking of you all day (and night) with some steamy text messages. To get their heart pumpin' try one of these suggestions:
I can describe you with one word... delicious!
I dream of you here with me with nothing on but our imaginations.
I can almost feel you here... caressing me... touching me...
In the deep of the night I dream of your touch.
I am dying to feel your touch all over my body.
Did you dream of me touching you last night?
When you can count all the stars in the sky; that's when I'll stop wanting you.

Sexy Phone Calls
One of the best tools you have in your sensual arsenal is your voice. Make the best of it with a little sexy phone chatter. If you're not sure what to say, read an erotic poem or story or start by sharing some of your more sensual fantasies. For a full in-depth look on this topic read our article, Sexy Phone Calls.

lovingyou.com